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Chosing between a lover & a spouse

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I don’t call things evil lightly. What is evil in my eyes, may not be in yours.  It is also greatly different in the perspective of a kindhearted yet Just God.

I also don’t get angry easily. Yet wholeheartedly I will call out this vicious evil lie!!

My husband told me that “God” sent his #3 other woman to him.

{W  H A T !!??}

That is  disgusting and vile! ! Seriously to suggest that God destroys marriages infuriates me!!

He also said it uncertainly with his head hung low. I knew he didn’t really believe it, yet somewhere someone had said it, and he was trying to convince himself too.

The other woman had the guts to repeat that same line, to me, and to others. Sadly others encouraged her! Did it start with her, I don’t know. I really don’t know where it started, but I know it is not unique to us.  Can you see the smoke coming off of my head?

How did I work through this? How do you work through this?

First of all I went to the Truth Teller. I RANTED, I RAVED, I probably through a tantrum or many.

After I was finished, I mean completely finished, which was a somewhat long process, because I didn’t get it. Often time I thought I’d had it, then circumstances went on and on and it all began to wear on me. I observed, I rationalized, I had others talking in my ear, not to mention talking about me.  I had to silence it all! ENOUGH!!

When I was ready to listen to God, he educated me with His wisdom. How? He asked me a question!

What is Love?

Which lead to more questions…

“What does love look like? It’s a question I’ve been pondering. “~ Misty Edwards

How do I dispel that lie that they believe and others champion?

It was right there, obvious to me yet there were supporters thinking these two have finally found the :love: they have been searching for!! I was sick to my stomach.

I mean I was just not enough right? (lie)

I was just the wrong person he has chosen. (lie)

He loves me, but wasn’t in love with me (lie)

He will always love me ….(yet didn’t want to be with me???-lie!)

We don’t have anything in common!  (lie)

We both deserve to be happy (just not with each other??-lie!)

Divorce-We’ll get over it in time. (LIE!!)

Confused much??

This article on chosing between a lover and a spouse explains it very well~

Those lies that felt unique to me then , are not!

Unfaithful, unhappy spouses have used them to justify their selfishness for ages!!

and the question I’ve been pondering …

answered while sitting in the very same room as the song in this video below

and by this song, on the very day I was least expecting it…

I wept and wept, as God downloaded

and I recognized my own lies I believed and the ugliness of my own heart.

I did not know what Love is.

I had a distorted view of God.

I’ll be discussing this  further in other posts…

Right now digest the article and this song.

I’d like to know what does it speak to you/your circumstance?



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